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Homophobia
is defined as the fear and hatred of people who love and are sexually
attracted to those of the same sex, which includes prejudice and acts of
discrimination resulting from that fear and hatred. Derived from the Greek
homos, meaning "same," and phobikos, meaning
"having a fear of and/or aversion for," the term
"homophobia" was coined by George Weinberg in 1972 in his book Society
and the Healthy Homosexual.1
Like other forms of
oppression, homophobia not only oppresses members of the target or
minority groups (gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgender people), but
also, on many levels, hurts members of the agent or dominant group
(heterosexuals). 2 As a result, everyone eventually loses, and
more specifically, the negative effect of homophobia remains alive.
Sororities, partially
because they comprise women, often are viewed as being less homophobic
than their counterpart male fraternities. The impact of homophobia on
sisterhood, however, is still very real and does threaten sororities. Many
times homophobia, as well as sexism and other forms of prejudice,
compounded by peer pressure, result in harassment and violence. Many
people do not see the connections between themselves and people different
from them who may be similarly oppressed. Women as a part of sororities
can benefit from such a view of the links of oppression. Issues such as
sexism, racism, homophobia, classism, ableism, anti-Semitism, and ageism,
are linked by a common origin -- economic power and control. 3
Such a belief requires that in order to eliminate any one oppression
successfully, all oppressions must be subsequently dealt with or else
success will be limited and incomplete. Educational efforts
among the Greek community need to reflect this theory of oppression to
have an impact on the organizational culture.
Therefore, homophobic
beliefs and actions not only pose potential harm to individuals of all
sexual orientations, but also jeopardize sisterhood itself. Despite this,
most Greek educational efforts either fail to address homophobia
altogether, or raise it simply as an isolated "side issue"
unrelated to the other issues and concerns. Such a practice will only
continue to hurt Greek life. In actuality, homophobia harms all sisters
and the goals of the college sorority.
The following list adapts
the theory of Warren J. Blumenfeld, from his book Homophobia: How We
All Pay the Price, to the college sorority and the female experience.
It also mirrors ideas presented by Suzanne Pharr in the book Homophobia:
A Weapon of Sexism to show the interrelated nature of the two forms of
oppression for women. This information may be useful to foster an
educational dialogue about how homophobia hurts the college sorority and
to heighten awareness on issues of sexual orientation.
1. Homophobia jeopardizes
sisterhood by inhibiting close, intimate friendships among sorority
women and their ability to show affection toward other women for fear of
being perceived as lesbian or bisexual.
2. Homophobia locks
sorority women into rigid gender-based roles that inhibit self
expression and exploration of female identity. As such, women may shy
away from activities that could be denoted as "tomboy" and
occupations that might traditionally be associated with masculine
behaviors. Such practices limit the choices of women and restrict the
development of a positive female identity--straight, lesbian, or
bisexual.
3. Homophobia creates a
negative environment for sisterhood by compromising the integrity of
heterosexual sorority women. Lesbian baiting may be a common practice
among some women to pressure and harass other women through calling, or
threatening to call them, lesbians. As such, homophobia is used as a way
to keep potential lesbians or bisexual women from joining the sorority,
to be kicked out, and/or to show superiority as heterosexuals.
- Homophobia can be used
to stigmatize, silence, and target people who are perceived to be
lesbian or bisexual and/or labeled by others as lesbian or bisexual.
Such an environment may be hostile to these sisters and lead to harms
that are often associated with being lesbian or bisexual.
- Homophobia creates an
environment where sorority sisters are sometimes pressured to conform
to heterosexual norms of dating and expectation to have sex. Women who
do not conform to such heterosexual norms may have their sexuality
questioned by others in a negative manner.
6. Homophobia breeds an
attitude of sexual conquest among men that can have a negative impact on
women in sororities. Fraternity men often feel pressure to "get
laid" to prove their virility as heterosexual males. Such
environments encourage men to use women as trophies of sexual conquest
and lead to higher likelihood of rape, sexual objectification and other
forms of sexual abuse of women.
7. Homophobia is one
cause for premature sexual involvement, which increases the chances of
sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS/HIV and pregnancy. Sorority
women often may be pressured to prove their "heteronormalcy"
by becoming sexually active. Such a perspective impairs educational
efforts on safer sex and sexuality awareness in the college sorority.
8. Homophobia restricts
communication among sorority sisters and diminishes the possibility of
creating a true sense of sisterhood and community, especially when the
sorority discovers another sister is lesbian or bisexual.
9. Homophobia prevents
sorority chapters from receiving the benefits of friendship and
leadership offered by lesbian or bisexual sisters. Chapters may
blackball or kick out members who are suspected to be lesbian or
bisexual. At other times, a lesbian or bisexual sister may leave the
sorority because of harassment and/or fear of violence.
10. Homophobia remains the
highest cause for suicide among youth.
11. Homophobia compromises
the entire learning environment on a college campus for all
students.
12. Homophobia inhibits
the appreciation of diversity in a campus community and adds to the
harassment and violence toward all minority groups. Such an environment
impairs the progress of educational efforts on multiculturalism and
diversity by not recognizing gay students in the campus dialogue.
13. Homophobia saps
energy from more constructive sorority projects. The time and energy
could be better spent doing sisterhood activities or philanthropy.
Revised from Out on
Fraternity Row: Personal Accounts of Being Gay in a College Fraternity, edited
by Shane L. Windmeyer and Pamela W. Freeman, Alyson Publications, 1998.
NOTES
1 George
Weinberg, Society and the Healthy Homosexual (New York: St. Martin’s
Press, 1972).
2 Warren
J. Blumenfeld, Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price (Boston: Beacon
Press, 1992).
3 Suzanne
Pharr, Homophobia: A Weapon of Sexism (Little Rock: Chardon Press,
1988).
Shane L. Windmeyer and
Pamela W. Freeman, Lambda
10 Project,
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