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Safe Zone
Ally programs have been in existence on college campuses for
several years. Schools such as Emory University, Northern
Illinois University, Emporia State University, Western
Illinois University, the University of North Carolina at
Charlotte, Duke University, and hundreds of others have
implemented such programs. The Safe Zone Ally program
fosters a welcoming and supportive campus environment for
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender students, faculty,
and staff by creating a visible network of allies. Safe Zone
Allies act as resource persons who can provide support and
information while respecting privacy.1
Safe Zone
Ally programs employ a visible network of people, including
students, faculty and/or staff members. Persons who have
attended some training agree to post, wear, display, etc. a
symbol that indicates involvement with the program. The role
of an ally varies, but by posting the symbol, the
participant agrees to listen openly, confront homophobic
jokes or comments, use inclusive language, keep shared
information confidential, and educate him/herself on issues
related to gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender concerns.
Why the Safe
Zone Ally Program is Important to the Greek Community?
In February
2000, a fraternity pledge was tied to a tree on the campus
of the University of Florida. "I am a fag" was
written on his face.2 This was just the one
example of the homophobia that exists within the Greek
system all across America. Other acts of intolerance and
bigotry are exemplified, and the need for support is evident
in the stories written by the women in this book, as well as
in the stories of men in Out on Fraternity Row: Personal
Accounts of Being Gay in a College Fraternity.3
Greek life is
representative of American life in general--groups of people
coming together with common interests and concerns. Many gay
and lesbian people enter into Greek life with the same
interests and concerns held by their brothers and sisters.
The greatest goal of the Greek community is fostering
brotherhood and sisterhood. A study by Douglas Case
indicates that lesbian, gay, and bisexual students join
fraternities and sororities for reasons similar to those of
heterosexual students.4 These reasons include
friendship and camaraderie, a support group and sense of
belonging, and social activities. Homophobia hurts
brotherhood and sisterhood by inhibiting the development of
close friendships. Of course, developing friendships is one
of the central components of Greek life.
With possibly
10% of Greek students being gay, lesbian, or bisexual, it is
becoming increasingly important for Greek communities to
recognize and appreciate their GLB members. Creating a Safe
Zone program is an excellent way to accomplish this goal and
to create an environment free of homophobia.
As mentioned
previously, many college campuses currently have Safe Zone
programs, and your institution also may have one. The
question is, "Have you or your sisters ever heard of
it?" We hope the answer is "yes," but chances
are the answer is "no." Creating a Greek Safe Zone
Ally program can provide visibility to your group and other
members of the Greek community. Visibility is the
cornerstone of the Safe Zone Ally program. By creating a
visible network of allies, we can create an atmosphere of
support and love for our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and
transgender brothers and sisters. You may ask, "Why
do we need a Greek Safe Zone Ally program if my institution
already has a program?" A great question! We believe
Greek communities can become a part of an existing program,
but we also advocate creating something unique. Such a
strong negative image exists regarding Greeks and
homophobia. Safe Zone is a visible, proactive way to combat
this image and to show support for closeted members within
the Greek system specifically.
Clearly we
are not doing something correctly when it comes to the
issues of support and love. In the survey by Douglas Case,
more than 70% of those responding said they had encountered
homophobic or heterosexist attitudes within their chapter.
Also, of those students who were GLBT, only 12% came out to
someone in their chapter.5 This is not a
welcoming environment, yet we would all like to believe that
our chapters are open to diversity. Displaying the Safe Zone
symbol, providing training to members of the Greek
community, and educating ourselves on issues of sexual
orientation form the path to creating a welcoming
environment in the college Greek system.
How to Start
a Greek Safe Zone Ally Program?
- Assess the
needs of the Greek community of which you are a part. Are
there GLBT members of the Greek community at your
institution? Chances are the answer will be
"yes," although many members may be closeted.
- Seek the
support of a campus department or office. Your institution
may already have a Safe Zone program. If so, enlist the
help of its coordinators to help you get started. If not,
try the student affairs/services area. Someone there
should be able to help. Talk to the Greek advisor as well.
- Do
research. Many institutions have their Safe Zone
information on the web. Some well-placed phone
calls to other institutions could help. The Lambda
10 Project also has developed a Greek Safe
Zone Ally program with a set of resources
specifically designed for college Greeks on any
campus.
- Decide
on a method of delivery. At my institution we
decided that no one could post the Safe Zone
symbol until they went through some training. We
offer two-hour sessions to faculty, staff, and
students throughout the school year. Perhaps
chapter meetings or an all-Greek educational event
would be an appropriate time to do limited
training.
- Develop
handouts or a manual. It's important to provide
allies with resources so they can be helpful to
others when asked questions or for information.
Manuals should include basic information about
what it means to be GLBT, strategies for being an
effective ally, and a bibliography of other
resources.
- Develop
a Greek Safe Zone logo. This is an important part
of Safe Zone. Below you can see a sample logo
created specifically from the Lambda 10 Project’s
Greek Safe Zone Ally program for college campuses
nationwide. The Greek Safe Zone Ally symbol comes
with a brief training manual for educating allies.
You can purchase these logos for your program by
going to
GREEK
SAFE ZONE ALLY ORDER.
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- Create
effective publicity and promotion for the program. I am
a big advocate of the WIFM theory: What’s In
it For Me! As it is with any program,
people need to know how they can benefit by
participating. The answer is simple. An environment that
is welcoming and supportive for all brothers and
sisters benefits everyone, not just heterosexuals. Every
bit of promotion you do for the program needs to send
this singular message.
- Do not be
discouraged if enthusiasm among Greek members is
lacking. One or two Safe Zone Allies are better than
none. Not every member of the Greek community is ready
or willing to take on this role. You do not want to
force anyone to become an ally.
What are the Benefits and
Risks to Being a Greek Safe Zone Ally?
To be an ally
is to unite oneself with another to promote a common
interest. People who are allies are not only helpers, but
also have a common interest with those whom they desire to
help. In an alliance, both parties stand to benefit from the
bond or connection they share.6 An ally is a
person who believes society is a better place through
inclusion of all people rather than the exclusion of people.
He or she educates him/herself to develop an understanding
of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people.
The benefits
of becoming a Safe Zone Ally are many. You have the
opportunity to learn so much more about people who are GLBT
and how your values and beliefs about sexual orientation
affect your own life and the lives of others. You can impact
the life of another person by being a role model and simply
by caring enough to listen. This is what brotherhood and
sisterhood are all about. The role of ally is also the role
of an educator. Confronting derogatory language or jokes,
teaching others what you have learned about GLBT issues, and
speaking supportively about GLBT concerns are the
cornerstone to what it means to be an ally. Your support or
care for another person may be the only support and care
that that person has in his or her life. Becoming an ally
means you are empowering yourself to fight prejudice and
bigotry in the world. You become strong!
I would be
naïve if I let you believe being an ally was easy or
without risk. As a vocal ally, I truly understand these
risks. Others will speculate about your own sexual
orientation, so you have to be comfortable with who you are.
You will become the subject of gossip and rumors. In the
Greek community this can be especially difficult. Morality
and values often play a role in discussions about sexual
orientation, so you must be comfortable yourself with your
morality and values.
The benefits
of creating a Greek Safe Zone and becoming a Safe Zone Ally
outweigh the risks. Such endeavors also help to meet that
goal that is common to all Greek organizations--fostering an
environment of brotherhood and sisterhood. What is in it for
me, as an individual, is also important. The knowledge of
the individual impact that allies can make is very
significant. Knowing that you made a difference in the life
of another person is powerful.
Conclusion
Safe Zone
Ally programs do work. Students who have started such
programs say that they feel Safe Zone helped them to improve
the overall campus climate. It is comforting for students to
know there is a safe place to discuss issues of sexual
orientation, and that there is education of the campus
community regarding these issues.7 A Greek Safe
Zone Ally program will work for Greek communities as well.
While Greeks are less likely to be a part of or know about
campus Safe Zone programs, they need it most for closeted
members to feel safe and to create environments that are
free from homophobia.
Creating a
Safe Zone program specifically for Greek communities is
paramount. Many times Greek organizations have visibility
and power on college campuses that other student
organizations do not have. Showing that the Greek community
on your campus is supportive to GLBT people proves that
Greeks believe in brotherhood and sisterhood, for all
people. Greek organizations were founded on the principles
of challenging the status quo and embracing the rights of
all people. Live up to this principle.
NOTES
1 "Opening
Minds, Opening Doors, Opening Hearts" (training manual
of the Northern Illinois University Safe Zone Ally program,
DeKalb, IL, 1999).
2 Matthew
Boedy, "U. Florida’s Phi Delt May Face
Immediate Suspension," Independent Florida Alligator,
27 March 2000.
3 Shane
L. Windmeyer and Pamela W. Freeman, Out on Fraternity
Row: Personal Accounts of Being Gay in a College Fraternity
(Los Angeles, CA: Alyson Publications, 1998).
4 Douglas
N. Case, "A Glimpse of the Invisible Membership,"
in Perspectives, Newsletter of the Association of
Fraternity Advisors, 23 Apr/May 1996: 7-10.
5 Ibid.
6 See
note 1 above.
7 Ronnie
Sanlo, "College Safe Zone Programs: Does Practice
Reflect Theory?" Student Affairs Today, June
1999.
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